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What will they say ?

What will they say ?

everyday So many people think about this, what will people say...and with this single thought so many people changes their decisions and mostly get influence in various aspects of their life due to this single thought.


This concept is very broad but we can only discuss about, how this single thought can affect our decision making.

So who are this peoples who affects our decision making,  we used the word society but society is a big words and this are the only people which we know, because the people we dont know have no  influence in our life. 

And why we get influence by them ?

We think about something, then we decided to plan, then before execution we think about those people, what will they say ?

Lets take a simple example form my own life! 
When I was in school, I used to play cricket. I was good in this game. Then after school I leave this game as my friends go other places for their studies. Then after completing my graduation when I reach home, the students from this school forces me to play cricket with them, at this time I think,
 I am not in school now how can I play with this students ? what people will think about me ?

This is very Simple example but so many people facing this issue in their day to day life ! 

Then I think what will happen if I play ?
nothing and I join the game.

So the fact is, may be peoples are busy talking about you, leave their wordI, because you are the only person who is responsible for your own life.

 When you feel like what will they say ?
think somehow forward of them, like what will happen if I do this ? if you find a answer which is helpful to your own life then you should surely do this.

If we are sure about what we are doing then there is no need to think about,
 what will they say ?

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