Make Me Awake

So, what success and happiness means to you,    Every has the different answer for this question, some might be thinks that, this two things are interconnected like happiness is next step after getting the success whereas some might be thinking that success is totally different phenomenon than happiness, some might have thought that happiness is a journey and success is the destination. Success and happiness are related in some cases, but they are not the same thing. Success is often defined as achieving a specific goal or reaching a certain level of wealth, fame, or status. Happiness, on the other hand, is a subjective emotional state of well-being. Ultimately, the relationship between success and happiness depends on how an individual defines these terms and what they prioritize in their life. For some people, success is a crucial part of their happiness, while for others, happiness is the ultimate goal, regardless of external measures of success.  So lets go inside int...

The Real Distraction: So what is distraction?  There are so many definitions are there for distraction as well as, so many peoples observed there own form of distraction on the basis of there own experience in their life. so lets simplify, distraction. In simple, "the resistance which hold peoples from achieving their goals or increasing their time to achieve their goals, is what we can consider distraction" There are again so many from of distractions, varies from people to people. So on the basis of my experiences, i come up with the new definition, "Distraction is the inclination of choices towards the information or content which is either informative or entertaining but irrelevant to your goal in a given time." Our current phase of life is the accumulation of various small events that have happened  as well as small goals we have accomplished in the past. So success is the result of so many factors like hard work, consistency, etc but focus is one of the most ...

"The Details Dilemma"                    Yesterday when woke up in morning and pick my mobile phone, got list of notifications which includes the social media notifications, mails, etc. I had been little bit confused while checking those notifications. And the most important fact is spend my valuable morning time in that work. Some of the notifications are actually important like some mails, messages  but some of them was just the response of peoples on my previous social media post. Then I started reading comments on that social media post, again some of the comments are positive and some are negative.  Then read one book summary on internet and latter keep my phone aside and started my day. In both of the cases like reading the social media comments and reading book summary the basic difference was, when we read social media comments and mostly negative we started comparing ourself with others and in another case while readin...

"Process is always superior over Product" First blogpost in the new year, so need something which will be very useful for whole year and what is it ?  The mindset ,  So this blogpost is going to build the mindset or can say resolution for new year... Everyone Have certain goals, and everyone have some roll models regarding that goal who have reached to that place. And this is great to have a goal and to have a roll model. But what people saw in roll model, is his success, How he is living his success and slightly avoid to understand the process of, how he became successful.  "When we saw dream we should think about the system of achieving that dream rather than completion of dream or results after achieving that dream"  Process is always superior over product.... Everywhere we see success stories, the successful life, the fame after success, the wealth after success and mostly people stuck themselves in that confusion. Either they started thinking about ...

ROI, Return of investment, the basic financial terms used to know the profitability of investment. Its easy to calculate the ROI by dividing net profit by total investment and then multiplying the answer by 100. We can get ROI in percentage. so this is very important term not only in finance but also we can use in our everyday life Everyday we are going through so many stuffs. The morning rituals, the work, conversation with people, entertainment tools etc. As in finance profit is the base for which we calculate ROI but in our real life we have certain goal which we have to accomplished within time. So what is required to get this goal is the most important and what we do regularly(daily habits)  for achieving this goal is the only way to get succeed.  But do we think about Return of investment.  Mostly we spend time on the things which are not profitable to our life like investing more time on social media, gaming and all that. Mostly life of peoples are diff...

We all know it that frustration is not the good for our mental health. So many time we get frustrated due to small reasons like stuck in traffic or we can say getting wet in rain when we dont have umbrella,etc. This are almost external causes of getting frustrated or simply we can say this facts are not in our control because no one really know when there will be raining or when traffic queue will increases. In this scenerio we cannot control the incident but we can easily control our response according_to this incidents. We have to accept those incidents as they arise because our serious response never make any impact on this incidents.   The another reason of frustration is if we continuously do which we dont like. There are lot of examples are there like pursuing a job which you dont like due any of the reason or playing any sport, just because your friends forcing you to play. The one another aspect is, mostly no one is get frustrated in their comfort zone. So ...