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5 reasons that makes you to lag in life.

5 reasons that makes you to lag in life.

Everyone Wants to lead in life but how someone leads if he do not have any idea about lagging. So to lead in life properly, requires a skill to understand what could make us to lag, so that we can lead by overcoming them. 
This theory is important in life because on every step of life there are certain actions which becomes beneficial and put certain positive change in life means lead our ourselves in life and there are certain actions which becomes harmful and we lag due to those actions. 
In this post we are going to put certain insights on those factors which are harmful and may restrict our growth with the solution to deal with them.


 1. Living life completely on the other's suggestions.

On every step of life we met peoples who provide us various suggestions. So many of this suggestions are beneficial too. But it's not necessary to stay depends on others suggestions because no one can predict our life better than ourselves. We should have complete awareness of what we are doing in life so that we can take proper decisions on the basis of that awareness. Taking suggestions are good but execution should be depends upon our own circumstances. 

Solution - Take complete responsibility of your life. Don't let someone define your life. Understand what actually you are doing in life then you can take suggestion from the peoples but use those ideas with your actual life scenario.

2. Not having the awareness of process.

There are certain steps required to reach at any destination. So having the awareness of process is very important. This part is important because most of the time we face failure, and the biggest reason was the unawareness of process. Every game has certain process to play. Similarly everything in our life has process too so need to analyse the process and win the life. 

Solution- Befor starting anything, get complete knowledge about the process . Then start start working with flexible approach so that you can change your process when necessary. 
Example - You cannot build a team, if you can't show the future of the team to those team members. So use certain process to convinced those peoples. Like met them, show your plan, show their benefit while working on your plan, show certain leadership qualities so that they can trust you as leader.

3. Comparison with others

As said earlier everyone has different life, everyone has different circumstances. So how is it possible that every has same phase of success or anything. So need to analyse it. Mostly when comparison starts in mind, mind starts showing loopholes or failures of our life. Then person start regretting his life while seeing others. So need to prevent comparison to be happy and the only way to prevent comparison is to understand that everyone has different life.

Solution - Understand your life completely and do not compare with others instead use this time of comparison to work on your life. 

4. Allocating more time in Thinking than executing.

In our daily life we goes through so many situations where required to take proper decisions. So executing proper decisions is very important. So many time we waste our time in thinking more and more and as the thinking ratio increases the execution ratio decreases. Thinking before the decision is good but more thinking can restrict us from taking quick decisions. Overthinking is a very bad habit and become responsible to less confidence. Because during overthinking. Most of the thoughts we are going through are negative so need to control the unwanted thoughts.

Solution - Avoid overthinking by meditation or pursuing any hobby. Learn the art of proper decision making by understanding all the factors related to that decisions.

5. Blaming others for our own fault.

As written earlier, failure is an inevitable part of life so what actually we need to do when hit by failure. The best way is to find the root cause and learn to avoid this for the next time. But this is not happens with all peoples, so many peoples likes to blame others for their faults. Might be blaming others can give you temporary relief from your failure but can put a long term adverse impact on your life. So taking responsibility for everything which happens in your life is beneficial for your growth.

Solution - Take responsibility of everything happening in your life start working. You are the one who is responsible for everything happening in your life whether it is good or bad.

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