Make Me Awake

"Failure Mindset" When we heard success stories,  what we understand ?  The journey of success. The most important quality which everyone tells, is hardwork. And surely hardwork is truly the most important quality, but how much hardwork and how long are the most important question. Any way, this is another topic and mostly  "How much hard work required is depends upon the size of the goal and the process of achieving the goal" As we know the continues hardwork is always the need of getting something achieved amd while achieving something, failure is inevitable. Its not sure that we get everything done in first attempt. So the most important quality which plays an significant role in achieving any goal is Persistence .  "Failure is a significant part of any success journey and to persist on that journey is the vital need."  Single defeat does not denote the complete failure. Failure is a great teacher which teaches the lesson which will became h

The Success Theory What success means to you is totally depends upon whats your perception are, regarding the outcome of that success. Mostly people wants to become wealthy because they thinks, that their life will be perfect when they will be wealthy. So money is the success for them and to live the life of wealthy person is the perception about outcome. The important factor evolve through this is why the person wants to become wealthy ? Whether it is his determination or influence of surrounding ?   We have to build our own theory of success, mostly  people consider success as social response, like we have to do this because this is very acceptable in society. So mostly peoples driven by society's definition of success. As everyone is not same in the world so how everyone can achieve same in the world. just because you are get influenced  for certain goal by surrounding  doesn't mean you will do this perfectly. Because the influence doesn't know your ability. So the bett

Either we have excuses or results, we dont have both Life is full of ups and downs and expecting life without it, is just an illusion. So mostly the situation of decision making is come across every day. The decision making in both of the cases like in happy situation and panic situation is the basic part of journey of life. So mostly the decision making is an art and everyone can learn this.  What matters more while decision making ? The mindset, the positive hope about our decision. The mind set of act on the decision rather than giving excuses. Excuse is the enemy of positive decision making. If we never control our mind towards an act which is necessary to make positive result of our decision then we can have excuses regarding that decision.  "We dont have both".. If we Find excuses rather than courage to execute decision, then this is never make us to make a better decision. So the important is, we should have a positive mindset about what we are doing or what type of de

Rethinking the Problem Yesterday when I was travelling with my friend towards destination, we stops at one small cafe centre. The person who is the owner of this centre was the only person there, who was doing everything from making coffee to serving it to customers. We had clearly seen his struggle. I sat for while and order two coffee, then after 5 minutes we got our order. Then after making orders of 4 to 5 peoples he got relaxed then in this instance we had also completed our coffees. Then I was went for bill and asked him about  how you doing ?  The common question people asked and by the answer we can easily understand person's perception towards his life. he said "everything is going great in my life, doing good" but when I turn to leave he said, can I tell you something, how we described our life is totally depends on ourselves. Consider If i was telling yoI that my life is miserable and doing very bad, then what you people would do with this ? Might be you people

Principle of "Lets leave it".... Everyday we have gone through so many events of our life. And not every event deserves a reaction. life is too short to give attention to everything.   In one day thousands of thoughts are came and go through our mind and most of them are negative. And this " negative thoughts can steal our present from ourselves". So mostly we should have to learn this principle to leave this negative thoughts. So lets leave it , is the better principle to improve our day to day life and find a a real happiness in our daily rituals. Mostly we get depressed by past or future events and its not easy to detached from this events but by using this simple principle we could  detached our past and future memories. " Mostly to live in present is prerequisite to enjoy every moment in life" , and if we fails to detached ourselves from past and future memories then how its possible ? then the best way is lets leave it !!! The second i

Morning Mindset Every morning When we woke up, we have two choices, either fix our mind to find solutions for whole day or find excuses for whole day.

What will they say ? everyday So many people think about this, what will people say...and with this single thought so many people changes their decisions and mostly get influence in various aspects of their life due to this single thought. This concept is very broad but we can only discuss about, how this single thought can affect our decision making. So who are this peoples who affects our decision making,  we used the word society but society is a big words and this are the only people which we know, because the people we dont know have no  influence in our life.  And why we get influence by them ? We think about something, then we decided to plan, then before execution we think about those people, what will they say ? Lets take a simple example form my own life!  When I was in school, I used to play cricket. I was good in this game. Then after school I leave this game as my friends go other places for their studies. Then after completing my graduation when I reach home,

Happiness is a Choice Yesterday got the call from one of my friend. He was talking about his work ,that he is no more like his work, not interested in his work, Not happy with this work anymore and so on.  I found that he was nervous about his work. Then I remembered  his words when he was starting this work. At this time he was happy about this work, he was working with full passion.   I ask him does any change happen in your work ? he said no.  then I ask, why your happiness shifted to pain ? He doesn't have any answer on this question, Then I said, earlier you choose to be happy and now you choose to be unhappy with your stuff.  Happiness is a choice Might be there are certain issues which makes him unhappy now but then finding solutions on this issues is the better way rather than complaining.  we can choose happiness in everything which we are doing but we mostly focus on entities which makes us unhappy.  There are easy ways by using them we can choose happiness. l

So many time we feel stressed just because of the small issues.   At the start we fails to evaluate the intensity of issue whether it is small or big and we start getting more depressed instead_of  thinking about the solution but when we got the solution and solve the issue we think that the issues was too small in front of us. " Instead of celebrating problem, its better to find the solution"  so the better way to deal with, this type of tragedy is uncover the influence of stress from our mind and start to seek solution.  "We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them" Albert Einstein