Make Me Awake

So, what success and happiness means to you,    Every has the different answer for this question, some might be thinks that, this two things are interconnected like happiness is next step after getting the success whereas some might be thinking that success is totally different phenomenon than happiness, some might have thought that happiness is a journey and success is the destination. Success and happiness are related in some cases, but they are not the same thing. Success is often defined as achieving a specific goal or reaching a certain level of wealth, fame, or status. Happiness, on the other hand, is a subjective emotional state of well-being. Ultimately, the relationship between success and happiness depends on how an individual defines these terms and what they prioritize in their life. For some people, success is a crucial part of their happiness, while for others, happiness is the ultimate goal, regardless of external measures of success.  So lets go inside into, this two im

The Real Distraction: So what is distraction?  There are so many definations are there for distraction plus so many people observed there own form distraction on the basis of there experience, so in simple "the resistance which hold us from achieving our goal or increasing our time to achieve our goal, is what we can consider as distraction." There are again so many from of distractions there, different from people to peoples. So the basis of my experiences, i come up with the defination,   "The inclination of choices towards the information which is either informative or entertaining but irrelevant to our goal in a given time is what we consider as the distraction." Our current life is the accumulation of various small events happens in the past. Our current phase of success is the result of various small success which we accomplished in the past. So success is the result of so many factors like hard work, consistency, etc but focus is also very important of them

How to deal with the unfavourable situation when you can not win the situation. Once a farmer from the small village goes to the farm as he regularly does. Start doing his daily tasks. He has daily practice for his regular tasks. Latter when the sun reaches the centre the weather started changing, within a moment the speed of the wind starts increasing. The farmer analysed that these are the signals of the storm and he start going towards the support. But within a short period, the storm hits the farm and the wind speed increases tremendously, the farmer reached the place where he only has the support of one big tree. He stands near the tree and grabs the tree by hand. The wind speed increases to the optimum level where everything becomes invisible due to the dust in the air. The farmer saw this but he never fears the storm and he confidently grab this tree. Latter after a few minutes, the storm slows down and the wind speed starts decreasing, within a couple of minutes the wind speeds

The Wet Clothes Theory Yesterday when I was on beach, observed one thing, when my friend was sitting on the beach so much sand stick to his clothes. Then when he walk for while in sunlight most of the sand goes down. The clothes becames the same as they were earlier. So the sand stay on the clothes when the clothes were wet and get removed when the cloths becomes dry.            Same thing happen with our mind too. In one day we come across various ups and downs moments. So many events are truly painful and some are full of happiness too. But when we are in stress or anxiety, negative thoughts start sticking to our mind. The stressful situation is the best place for negativity. When we become negative we start thinking negative, becomes pessimistic about the future, loose confidence, etc. And when we overcome this phase of anxiety, we come to the normal state. "The negativity only stay when we are in stress". As we overcome this stress we also get rid of negativit

5 reasons that makes you to lag in life. Everyone Wants to lead in life but how someone leads if he do not have any idea about lagging. So to lead in life properly, requires a skill to understand what could make us to lag, so that we can lead by overcoming them.  This theory is important in life because on every step of life there are certain actions which becomes beneficial and put certain positive change in life means lead our ourselves in life and there are certain actions which becomes harmful and we lag due to those actions.  In this post we are going to put certain insights on those factors which are harmful and may restrict our growth with the solution to deal with them.  1. Living life completely on the other's suggestions. On every step of life we met peoples who provide us various suggestions. So many of this suggestions are beneficial too. But it's not necessary to stay depends on others suggestions because no one can predict our life better than ourselve

The Happiness Acquisition.   Today when I woke in the morning feels somehow lazy but then back to track and started thinking about the question, whether am I happy with what I am doing, the mind started wandering for the answer but what I realise is that life is not completely happy or completely unhappy. Life is the aggregation of both happy and unhappy moments. I just go deep in the ocean of thoughts for this question then I reached at the bottom of the ocean, that happiness is the product of your perspective process. Your perspective matters more in choosing happiness or being unhappy . Like most of the people feels their present suffering as motivation and reached at their goal and becomes happy on the other hand some of them feels suffering as pain and stuck in the thought that why they are facing this suffering. So perspective is the the key element of choosing happiness or being unhappy. happiness is the choice and not a gift. We have to choose happiness over any circumstances